How To Last Longer In Sex

By: Stephen Thiele

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Looking for information on how to last longer in sex? While there is no guarantee that you will be able to last longer in the bed, this guideline will go over a few tips and techniques that you can try. Many men do not realize that being able to last longer while they are having sex is mental. Basically, you need to listen to your body and teach yourself how to last longer while you are having sex.

  1. Sex Positions. Believe it or not, how long you last during sex depends on the sex positions that you are using. Different sex positions can have different impacts on your ejaculatory and pelvic muscles, which affect how long you last in bed. You will need to try a few different sex positions out so that you can learn which positions allow you to maintain an erection longer while you are having sex.
  2. Breathing. The way that you breath can have a significant impact on how long you last during sex. If you are breathing at a rapid pace, then you are probably very excited, which will cause you to lose your erection before you want to lose it. To last longer while you are having sex, you will need to teach yourself to breath calmly during sex. This can be difficult to do, but you will need to learn to control yourself if you want to maintain an erection for an extended period of time.
  3. Ejaculatory Muscles. It is possible for you to to train your ejaculatory muscles. Just before you are about to cum, you will notice that your ejaculatory muscles become tense. Your ejaculatory muscles are becoming tense because they are contracting, which pushes your semen out and causes you to lose your erection. For most men, when your ejaculatory muscles begin to contract, you are about to orgasm. To last longer while you are having sex, you will need to train your ejaculatory muscles so that it takes them longer to contract. To do this, you will need to try to hold your orgasm in for as long as you can.
Posted on: Nov. 09, 2010