How To Last Longer While Having Sex
Figuring out how to last longer while having sex is all about practice and understanding your body. Every man out there has had a mishap or two in the bedroom. The trick is to learn from those mishaps. Lasting longer is all about understanding how you function so you can manipulate that functionality. With a little fun filled practice, you'll be lasting longer while having sex. There are a a few simple techniques that can help you to last longer while getting down. Incorporate them with a better understanding of your body and you'll be lasting longer during your bedroom wrestling matches than you ever thought possible.
- Your penis and your mind. What turns you on the most? What sexual position feels the best? These two questions are very important. If you want to last longer while having sex, you need to know exactly how your body and mind works. Certain positions will inevitably speed you up in the bedroom while others will help you last longer. Here's the thing though—all guys are different. You have to figure out for yourself which positions get you too hot to fast. You also need to figure out what turns you on, so when the time is right, you can block it out of your mind. It's sort of like sex on autopilot. You won't be thinking, just doing. This is the first step in lasting longer while having sex.
- In the bedroom. After you've figured out your respective coming times for various positions, you're ready to put this information to use. Minimize the positions that speed you up, while utilizing the positions that get her off more frequently. Also, if being with your girl makes you think too deeply about sex, you need to block the emotion and thoughts at certain points during your sex session. It gives you time to recoup. Here's what you do. Find something that you can focus on that's totally nonsexual. Don't stop the physical act of the sex, but detach yourself from the emotional side … just until you feel your urge to come lessening.
- Switching up. Another trick many guys use to last longer is by switching positions. If one is feeling to good for you, switch it up. This gives your penis a few seconds to calm down and regain it’s composure. Tell her you love her body and want to see it from all angles. She’ll love it.
- Going down. If the urge gets to strong, don’t be afraid to pull out. Just make sure you continue to pleasure her until your little soldier can get back into the game. Going down on her is a great way to keep her going. You can use your fingers, tongue, lips or whatever. Just keep her busy until you can enter her again.
- Specialized condoms. Some condoms are made with a desensitizing gel in them. Just grab some of those. They’ll give you a few extra minutes to do your thing. Incorporating these things with the aforementioned techniques will keep you going for a while.
- Not a secret. Clean your pipes before you even get to the sex. You’ve probably heard that joke about masturbating before sex because it helps you last longer while having sex. Well, it’s not a joke. Fire off a round before you even get in the bed with her. You’ll be slightly desensitized, and the urge to have sex won’t be as dominant in your mind. Now you’re sexing with power. Just remember, it’s not about you lasting for hours and hours. It’s about you lasting long enough to give her the pleasure she wants. Enjoy.