How To Leave Love

By: Lisa Gove

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you are in a bad relationship and need to find out how to leave love, you can do it. A bad relationship is not a good place to be, even if you are still in love with her. If you feel like you need to get out, but you don't know how, you can find out here.

  1. Make it quick. The best way to leave love is to make it quick and simple. Don't try to draw things out over dinner or have a last weekend together. Set up a time to meet her and get right to the point. It will be hard, but drawing it out will make it even harder.
  2. Use your friends. Your friends and family are your support system. When you leave love it is extremely hard, so you will need their support. Lean on them and let them help you to get through it. It is ok to hurt and to be sad.
  3. Do it in person. When you need to leave love, you will need closure. You can't get this if you try to break it off over the phone or in a text. Talk to her face to face and let her have her say as well.
  4. Have an idea of what you want to say. Before you get together, think about what you want to say to her. Flying by the seat of your pants is not a good idea when you need to leave love. You don't need to have a full script written out, but definitely think about what you want to say to her. This will also help you to not stumble over your words.
  5. Be strong. You need to keep your head up whether you are leaving her or she is leaving you. If you are in a situation where you have to leave love, but it is not your choice, you will need to stay strong and let her go.
Posted on: Apr. 03, 2011