How To Make An Ex Jealous

By: Kelly Cannon

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Do you want know how to make an ex jealous so that she'll come running back to you? If you think your break-up was a mistake, and that there's a chance she still likes you, this can work. This tactic works best when the break-up was impulsive, for example after a big fight. On the other hand, if the two of you have had a lot of problems in the past, getting back together probably isn't the best idea. You can still try to make your ex jealous if she made you miserable and you're eager to show her that you've moved on. Whatever your motive may be there are several things you can do to make an ex jealous.

  1. Pay attention to her rival. Was there a girl that she's been jealous of in the past? Some one that she was suspicious of you having the hots for? This is the time to give that girl a little attention in order to make your ex jealous. It doesn't have to be anything big as you can simply dance with her in the club or talk to her at a party. The important thing is that your ex sees it, or even better, that her friends see it. You can be sure they'll be texting her as fast as their fingers can fly, to let her know what you're up to.
  2. Act like you're over the break-up. One of the best ways to make an ex jealous is by acting like you're completely unconcerned about having broke up. Even if you feel like you're broken on the inside, your outside needs to be sunny and happy. If she's the one that broke up with you, this will drive her crazy. She's expecting you to be devastated. Don't let her see it if you are, and she'll be jealous of your ability to move on, sure that there's someone else making you happy.
  3. Always be upbeat when you talk to her. If she asks how you're doing, a simple "I'm fine" with a smile is all you need. If you should "forget" to ask how she's doing in return, even better. Don't go into detail about how great you're doing without her, that will only prove that you aren't. Don't talk about other girls, or all the parties you've gone to. Be pleasant, but non-committal. Again, it will drive her crazy to see that your over her so easily.
  4. Call another girl while she's around. It doesn't have to be a girl that you're romantically interested in, but it does have to be someone you can do some light flirting with. Rather than making sure you talk loud enough for her to hear you, try glancing in her direction and then lowering your voice so she can't hear you. Act like you're trying not to be heard, but make sure she can see you smiling. Even if you're just talking to a platonic friend, you can use your actions to make an ex jealous.
Posted on: Nov. 24, 2010