How To Make Eye Contact

If you're nervous while talking to a lovely lady at the bar, you can double your chances of taking her home by learning how to make eye contact. Eye contact is truly the first impression you make on people and can really make a sexy single at the bar feel more at ease. Increase your ability to take her home by learning how to make eye contact.

1. Smile. Letting yourself relax is one of the easiest ways to learn how to make eye contact. Smiling not only puts you at ease, but it also relaxes your partner—once the both of you are feeling comfortable with each other's presence, you'll find that making eye contact isn't as difficult as you once believed it to be.
2. Maintain you gaze longer than usual, but don't stare. It might sound a little ambiguous at first, but you need to find a balance between maintaining eye contact and not staring. The real trick here is to look into her eyes and lock your gaze there. Don't just flick your eyes to hers and quickly direct them back to the floor. That, in and of itself, exudes a sense of anxiety and will get you nowhere closer to keeping eye contact with her; it also comes off as a little creepy. If you look her in the eyes, do so with a relaxed nature; you'll find yourself more able to maintain this contact and to not stare. So in the end, by allowing yourself to not worry about whether or not you're taking this lady home, you'll find yourself not staring. This is one of the most subtle lessons you'll learn when mastering how to make eye contact.
3. Concentrate. By putting your attention completely in your conversation partner's hands, you'll find making eye contact to be much easier. Of course, you pay more attention when something commands your interest, so tuning in on your lovely lady's conversation will definitely help you maintain your eye contact. Furthermore, the most insulting thing you can do to a lady is to look away when she's in the middle of a sentence. Give her due respect and you'll find yourself mastering the art of making eye contact more easily.

Mastering how to make eye contact will help you see a noticeable boost in the amount of ladies you'll be taking home at night. Keeping eye contact with a lovely lady at the bar or nightclub exudes a sense of self confidence and authority—qualities that women find extremely attractive. To make you a more desirable presence after entering the room, you cannot go wrong by learning how to make eye contact with anyone and everyone around you.