How To Make The First Kiss
Want to know how to make the first kiss make a first impression? Making the first kiss with a new woman who is worth the while is about a lot of different factors. Sure, it seems like it should be just a simple touch on the lips but it is more then just that. A kiss can tell you a lot about a woman and it can also tell her a lot about you. If you want to make your first kiss the best kiss then just follow these steps before you make that lean-in and in no time you will be the talk of all of her friends.
- Make sure she wants to be kissed right now. That may seem like it is a no-brainer, but even if a girl likes you, it may not be the right time. It is all a matter of knowing your girl. If she is shy then she probably doesn't want you to kiss her in front of everyone she knows at her birthday party. While there is no universal way to know if it is the right moment, there are a few cues to look for that can help you find the right time. The odds are that if she wants to be kissed, she will be close to you, physically. Much closer then normal, and possibly leaning in slightly, as if listening carefully to everything you are saying. There may also be other physical contacts, like hand holding, as a precursor to the kiss.
- Set the mood. Being romantic isn't about flowers and candy at this stage, it's about being an involved listener and being focused on where you are and what you are doing. You will want to be somewhere at least semi-private. Yes, in front of her house after a date counts, as do cars and anywhere else you could describe as quiet. Have some lighting,but not too bright. Dim is right for this situation.
- Practice good hygiene. You don't have to run to the bathroom to gargle, but you may want to consider switching off your beer to water and take a few sips of water before the kiss. Also, order wisely. Dishes with strong flavors, like onion, garlic and chilli peppers, should probably be passed over tonight. Sorry, Philly cheesesteak fans. At the very least keep some mints on hand. Pop one before the big moment. Just be sure its not still in your mouth when you go in for the kiss.
- Pucker up. Don't go in for an open mouth kiss the first time. Sure, it might end up there, but you don't want to be too aggressive right now. Also, remember guys, that you do not want to be too hard with the pressure. What you want for mouth feel is a solid kiss at first that gives way to a softer feeling. Think of your kiss as a good candy bar, crunchy on the outside but smooth on the inside.