How To Make A Girl Cum
Nothing can make a man feel more like a man than making a girl cum. To know that you have the power to make a girl cum, to give her that pleasure, only heightens your own pleasure. Some women, even in this enlightened age, are still hung up on how they should behave in the bedroom. Many girls do not realize that it is okay to masturbate, to cum, and to enjoy their body. If you find yourself in this situation, you may have to work through it with her. If she can talk about it, you are well on your way. If she cannot vocalize what she wants, how she feels, or what is worrying her, do not despair. Her body language will communicate far more to you than she realizes and you can help her to relax, enjoy and cum.
- Use her mind against her. Her mind has the potential to be your greatest erotic weapon. Women are not turned on by what they see. They are emotional creatures who must be led into the bedroom. An X-rated movie will be boring to most women, however, find an R-rated romance movie and she will be climbing all over you. A woman will be more turned on by the story leading up to the bedroom than by the act of what goes on in privacy. So, seduce her with a hot video to get her mind headed in the direction you want it to go.
- Take your time. A man can be ready to jump in the sack at the drop of a hat. To get a girl ready to cum, you will have to warm up her body. Start with long kisses, slow caresses and tender teasing. You will need to watch her body to see the effect of different things work on her. If she is flinching and wary, you are probably being a bit to rough and pushy, back off a bit and let her warm up some more. If she is moaning softly, unable to sit still, then up the ante and turn up the heat.
- Remember her clitoris: Most women will never be able to cum with vaginal penetration alone. Remember that a girl’s clitoris has sensitive nerve endings and is the key to getting a girl to cum. Play with it by caressing it softly, then pinching lightly. As she responds, increase the pressure and then include insertion into the vagina. Her body language will tell you what she is feeling. Her moans of passion will rise and her body will clench. In women, the longer she fights against cumming, the deeper the satisfaction.
After a girl cums, be sure and cuddle with her for a few minutes. Continue to stroke her breasts and body gently. You will probably find her body reawakens quickly and round two will include your own passionate release.