How To Make Up With A Girl

By: Anessia Walker

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Need to know how to make up with a girl? In a fairytale world you would never say or do anything to have to make it up to her, but here in the real world there will be countless times you will have to make it up to a girl. Of course you know making up with a girl is always the best part of a disagreement. Girls are very caring and understanding, but when you upset one you better believe you will have some groveling to do to make it up to her.

Calm down. Before you can make it up to a girl you need to get your mind and thoughts together. How intense the argument got is important to knowing how to make it up to her. Was it a petty little squabble or was this the mother of all arguments? This will make the difference of how much making up you have to do.
Give the girl her space. Depending on how heated things got, give her a chance to cool off. If you try to apologize to a girl to soon, she might not want to hear it. So give her a little breathing room before going any farther.
Humble yourself. That means apologize to the girl. Often, guys have a tough time admitting to being wrong or at least take responsibility for your part in the argument. Make sure it’s genuine, a girl with a good heart will sense you are sincere and accept your apology.
Be creative. Don’t just send her a sweet little text message if you really want to make up with a girl because with all the texting going around you don’t have to put much thought and effort into doing that. Get creative and try this plan. Start by buying her some flowers with a sweet little card in it, later you will ask her to meet you somewhere in a text and attach a picture of the flowers to the text message. Before you send the text, go over to her house, but don’t even think to pull up in the driveway-you don’t want her to spot you. Now send the text message, put the flowers at the door, then ring the doorbell and leave. Sending the text messages with the flowers will lighten her mood, but the flowers at the door will surely make her forgive you.
Make up time. Once all is forgiving between you and your girl and the both of you have calm down, don’t go back and rehash what happen to see who was really wrong, unless something was left unresolved that needed to be cleared up and the two of you are ready to sit down and talk reasonably with one another, then it should be okay to do so.