How To Make Girlfriend Happy

By: Glennice Fryson

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Are you on your last leg and really need help knowing how to make your girlfriend happy? It's really not that hard. Most guys work too hard at trying to keep themselves happy rather than their girlfriends. Take a few hints from the female in your life and draw your tips from her instead of from books, friends or other females. You might find yourself pleasingly surprised that your girlfriend will show signs of being happy at those little things you do rather than things you thought would make her happy.

  1. If you're not sure something will make her happy, ask. Strangely enough, men sometimes fail to ask the very person they want to please. Isn't it weird?  Most males go everywhere else seeking the answer to these questions rather than to the main source: their girlfriend. Ask your girlfriend what makes her happy.
  2. Listen to your girlfriend. Listen to your girlfriend when she speaks. There is an art to listening. Sometimes we fail to understand what a person is saying when he/she speaks. It's as if you hear the words, but you never actually hear the person; you never actually tune in to what is being said. Listen and understand your girlfriend's deep inward emotion and spirit.
  3. Call your girlfriend to say "I love you." For no other reason, just call to say, "I love you." Nothing feels better to your girlfriend than to hear her man say "I love you" and you cannot say it too often. Call her during the day while you are away from her and say, "I love you."
  4. Send her flowers. Don't give her the flowers personally. There is something special about sending your girlfriend flowers. When flowers are delivered to a girlfriend at work, at home, at her apartment or when any other females are around, it truly makes her feel special, happy and loved.
  5. Don't you dare look at other females in a lustful manner. Do you ever see a man looking at other females while with his girlfriend? If you want to kill your relationship, just make that move with your girlfriend. We are talking total, complete, turn off. Forget love, period! Forget kissing her again, hugging her again or maybe being with her again. Play this move and you may as well slap her in the face. Never look at another female with desire while with your girlfriend.
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Posted on: Nov. 22, 2010