How To Make Her Cum
If you want to know how to make her cum, you have a lot of work to do. But do not worry, you will enjoy this labor of love. While a man may get aroused watching a woman’s breast bounce while she jogs, a woman is very different. While men become aroused on a visual level, women become aroused on an emotional level. To make her cum, you have to start with her mind and get her in the mood first.
Start with a woman’s mind. Your lover’s mind is the largest erotic weapon in your arsenal of weapons to make her cum. She may not even know exactly what turns her on. In fact, it's usually when a woman reaches her mid-thirties that she develops an understanding of exactly what she wants and how she wants it. If you are fortunate enough to be with a woman who does know, and is willing to share, you are well on your way to making your woman cum.
- Help her discover what gets her excited. X-rated movies and men’s magazines are not it. These, again, are visual stimulants that will help turn you on, not her. Women are more interested in the story line, the journey of how they get to the bedroom, not the act itself. A hot R-rated movie is a much better choice if you want to get her hot and bothered.
- Take your time. You may be ready to plunge right in, but that does not mean that she is, or that she will cum if you do. The longer a woman is aroused, the more intense her orgasm will be. Once her mind is properly warmed up, begin warming up her body. Slow caresses, followed by tender love bites around her shoulders, neck, and breasts are great ways to begin. Each woman is different in that some like it a bit rough, some like it extra sweet. You will have to learn your own woman’s desire.
- Pay homage to her clitoris. Very few women can cum by stimulation of the vagina alone. Consider her clitoris to be similar to your penis. Ignore it, and you are depriving her, and yourself, of intense pleasure. Start with gentle strokes all along her pelvis floor, then isolate the clitoris and pay special attention to it. Whether you use your fingers, your tongue or something else, start with gentle strokes and light pressure, increasing the pressure as her passions rise. Continue to stimulate her clitoris and you will be showered with her pleasure as her body spasms in orgasm.
- Cuddle with her a few minutes before continuing, especially if she is new to cumming. This will get you more points that you can imagine. You can softly stroke her breasts and tweak her nipples while she recovers from round one. Within just a few minutes, she will be ready for round two.
Now that you know how to make her cum, keep in mind that the more a woman orgasms, the more she is going to want to cum. She is developing a new set of muscles and the more exercise those muscles get, the quicker they will warm up next time. Soon, you will be able to make her cum with just the slightest urging.