How To Make Her Fall In Love

By: Morgan Kierra Walton-McNeal

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you find yourself seriously into a woman, then you will want to know how to make her fall in love. Some women have had really bad past experiences, and some have never considered giving love a try. Either way you need to know how to make her fall in love so that you can show her that you are the guy for her. Only do this, however, if your intentions are good. If you really want to make her fall in love so you can make her happy and be happy as well, then use these tips and you will be well on your way to a great relationship with a woman who loves you.

  1. Treat her like your equal. There is nothing worse than being treated like a child or being treated as if you were inferior to someone. If you like a woman and want to make her fall in love, then treat her as you would your equal. Don’t treat her as if she is helpless, but help her if she needs you to. Respect her opinion if she gives it, and let her take care of some things as well. If she says she can handle doing something you think she’s not capable of, at least give her a chance. She will respect a guy who treats her like an equal and not like a helpless little girl.
  2. Give her space. No one wants to deal with a clingy stalker. Make her fall in love by giving her some space sometimes. Hang out with her, but don’t smother her. If you call her every day, that’s fine, but seven times a day is overkill. Know when and how to let her breathe. Instead of calling, send her an email. If you take her out to eat and she gets up, don't follow her. It sounds extreme, but there are guys who do it. If you smother her, she will most likely do everything in her power to get away from you as often as possible, and that won’t make her fall in love with you.
  3. Involve yourself in what she likes. Find out the things she likes, and find ways to incorporate yourself into those activities. If she likes a certain musical artist, take her to a concert, or invite her over for dinner and have that music playing in the background. If she likes going to a certain place, take her if you can. This can even be as simple as asking her what she likes and talking about it. She will be appreciative that you care enough about her to involve yourself.
  4. Be nice to her. Nice guys may finish last, but they walk away with the girl. If you are nice to a woman you will be closer to making her fall in love with you. People have gotten away from being nice to each other, so showing her that you are still a nice guy will be a welcome surprise. Don’t talk down to her, don’t harshly criticize her and always be a gentleman. She will appreciate it and you will reap the benefits.
  5. Put her at the top of your list. When it comes to all of the people in your life, she should be the most important. If you put her first she will notice, and she will appreciate it. So, every now and then opt out of a night with the guys and spend it with her. If she needs you, make it your business to get to her. You can make her fall in love with you a lot easier once she knows she is the most important person in the world to you.
Posted on: Jul. 23, 2010