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How To Make Her Love Me

By: Morgan Kierra Walton-McNeal

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you’re in love with a woman and find yourself constantly thinking, “I just need to know how to make her love me,” then you have come to the right place. Making someone love you can be rewarding, but it has to be handled with care. Incorporate these helpful tips the next time you need to know how to make someone love you.

  1. Be what she needs. Make her love you by being the man she needs to the best of your ability. Maybe she needs a protector; be that for her. Maybe she needs someone to talk to; if so, listen to her. She will be happy to find a guy who fits the characteristics she is looking for.
  2. Tell her how you feel. If you love her, tell her! People's feelings can change once they know what someone feels about them. Tell her how you feel about her and you will make her love you for your honesty and openness. The two of you can begin to explore where the relationship will go once both of you put your feelings out on the table.
  3. Show her how life with you will be. If she feels like things with you will be better than they are now, or different in a good way, then you can make her love you. Don’t lie or fabricate, but give her an honest glimpse of life with you. This may mean taking her somewhere, doing something for her or just showing her that you are always going to be there and support her. Just make sure she is well aware of the perks of being with you. Remember that there’s a right way to do this; you should never verbalize it because you will sound like a jerk. Saying things like “This is how it would be if you got with me,” or, “See, this is why you need me in our life,” and “Get with me and there’ll be more where that came from,” will most likely offend her and send her running the other way. Instead, just be an active example of a great boyfriend.
  4. Be a positive factor in her life. She may have a lot going on in her life, so make her love you by being the most positive thing in her life that you can be. Don’t bring any unnecessary drama to her life. Don’t talk poorly about other people. Make sure that every experience she has with you is a good one.
  5. Express to her just how much you need her. Show her that she means just as much to you as you want to mean to her. Make sure she understands that you care about her and she means something very important to you. You will make her love you by being open and true with your feelings, and once she knows just how important she is to you, she may feel more strongly towards you.
Posted on: Jul. 23, 2010