How To Make Her Like You

By: Sophie Southern

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you are interested in a girl that seems out of your reach, you may be able to charm her by using the right moves and learning how to maker her like you. Women date men for many reasons, but all women are interested in a man who is confident in himself and who he is. Gaining the courage to ask a woman out is half of the battle, but if you want to learn how to make her like you, try these tips.

  1. Listen to what she says. Women love a man who listens when they talk. Listen to her stories and anecdotes and show her you were listening by referencing them in later discussions. She will start to notice that she feels like she can talk to you because you always listen.
  2. Be yourself. A woman will always figure out if you are lying, being fake or putting on a front. Be yourself instead and use your best qualities to win her over. Confidence is one of the biggest attraction factors, so being comfortable with who you are will surely get her attention.
  3. Find common interests. Ask her questions when you are talking to find out what interests you share. When she mentions something you like, tell her you are also a fan and ask if she wants to do something together related to your joint interest.
  4. Pay attention to her, but don’t be clingy. Women are turned off by clinginess just like men, so don’t call her 20 times just because she didn’t call you back. Call her when you say you will call her but don’t overdo it.
  5. May yourself slightly unavailable. Women always want what they can’t have, even if it’s cliche. Spend time with her to show you’re interested, but every once in a while tell her you have plans to keep her wanting more.
Posted on: Nov. 29, 2010