How To Make Love To My Wife
Are you thinking to yourself, "I need to learn how to make love to my wife"? Anyone can have sex; you instinctively know what goes where and what to do. But, do you know how to make love to your wife? Of course you love her, you married her, but do you know how to make love to her? Love making is sensual and seductive—yes, you need to seduce your wife. Leave her thinking about you all day, on edge, waiting for the two of you to come together as one. If you are reading this article, you have already taken the first step. Sex is just the icing on the cake. Ask any woman anywhere what she would rather have, the icing or the cake, and she is going to say, "Darling, I want both." This article will show you how to give it to her.
- Start the love-making early in the day. Tell her how much you love her throughout the day. Call her when you get a spare minute at work and gush over her for a few minutes. Be sincere; she will know if you are "faking the funk."
- Focus on the wonderful things about your wife. Kind, warm thoughts will make you treat her in a kind, warm manner. Every woman on the planet gets the warm fuzzies when she feels appreciated. This will work in your favor every time.
- Bring her little treats. Men seem to be perplexed by this notion. Men think, "Why do I have to buy her something—I shouldn't have to pay my wife for sex!” Consider what you want, and what she wants. A token of your love is not a payment. Seriously, your gesture merely reaffirms that fact that you have been thinking about her.
- Spruce yourself up. Shower and brush your teeth. If you throw on a little cologne or after shave, you will score big romance points with your wife. Women are stimulated by scents.
- Help your wife get in the mood. If you have romance on your mind, help her get focused too. If she can't "let her hair down" because of the children, put them to bed. If the dishes in the sink are distracting her, wash them. No, you aren't the slave, but isn't it a small price to pay to make her feel loved? When she feels loved, she will want to make love.
- Make making love about your wife. If you don't remember anything else, remember this: some men think that it's their technique that makes a woman tremble, but what really makes the difference is when you make love-making about her. Whisper in her ear, “This is all about you." Don't worry, you will get your turn.
- Ask her what she likes. This is a no-brainer. Take care of her, and she will take care of you. Making love to your wife shouldn't be a guessing game. Ask her what she wants and how she wants it. Listen, and in no time at all she will be asking you the same questions.
- Work harder. Haven't we heard this all our lives, hard work pays off? This rule applies to making love also. Put your heart, soul and mind into making love to your wife.
- Tell her how attractive she is to you. You may tell her every day, and you may think she already knows how attractive you find her. Tell her again, and again. Your mere words make your wife feel sexy and attractive, which will set the tone for love.
- Make love to her head first. Guys, start at the top. Remember, for women, love-making is a very mental process. The more effort you put into the mental aspect, the less physicality will be necessary during round two and three.