How To Make An Orgasm Last Longer

By: BWalter

Break Studios Contributing Writer

It's time to learn how to make an orgasm last longer. Some women may lie to you and tell you that "it's ok that I didn't come this time." Or they'll even say that the orgasm you gave them felt good. The truth is gentlemen, orgasms vary in length and feeling. Giving her that orgasm is the ultimate payoff during a sexual encounter and that's what you're there for. Making an orgasm last for an extended period is ideal. If you don't do it, you can pretty much guarantee that she'll grab one of her toys and generate an orgasm from some double A batteries. Now unless you're using the toy on her to make her orgasm last longer, you may as well call it a day. Your fun is over. You know you don't want that. So, here's how to make her orgasm last longer.

  1. Foreplay is a must. The first step to giving her an orgasm that lasts longer is giving her some grade A foreplay. Don't just give her a run of the mill session of five or ten minutes of kissing her neck and playing with her boobs. You need to get in there and get to work. Foreplay is one of those things that should go on throughout your sex session. You want to get her as hot and as bothered as physically and mentally possible. She's your girl, you should know how to push her buttons. And if you don't, foreplay is the best tool for sexual exploration with your mate. So, spend some time teasing and pleasing your lady.
  2. The change up. Most guys know how to give their girls orgasms. A certain sequence of button pushing can get her to the pay off. But, routine gets boring. Boredom leads to weaker and weaker orgasmic peaks. So, if you want to make that orgasm last longer then you're going to have switch up the game plan. Variation is the key to helping to build more powerful orgasms. It's ok to start her off the normal way, but add some new moves, strokes, licks, sucks, kissing to the mix. This is why foreplay is an ongoing activity during a great sex session. You're constantly finding new ways to twist your lady up. Don't allow her to get used to your moves. You really need to be creative here. You really need to know how to read your girls body. If you do something she likes, her body will tell you.
  3. Make her wait on it. The key to making her orgasm longer is to delay her reaching her peak. Just because you've figured out how to get her to come, doesn't mean you have give it to her right away. Anticipation can add to the power of the orgasm after you've finally decided to let her come. Yes, let her. You're in control of her orgasm, therefore, just slow it down. Get her close to reaching her peak, then switch up your techniques. Get her close again, then switch it up again. Not only will it be fun to watch her reactions, you'll notice her getting hotter and hotter. When you finally decide to let her come, it'll be an explosion of pleasure. 
Posted on: Aug. 30, 2010