How To Make Out Well
Learn how to make out well by reading the reactions of your partner. Making out is considered by most to be foreplay rather than completing the sexual act. It is almost like a dance, and each step in making out leads to either backing off or moving towards the next step. All of this can be done without verbal cues, though verbal cues can definitely help in deciding whether to advance or retreat in the make out dance.
- Begin to make out with a date. A casual date to a movie or dinner will help you both to relax and get to know one another. One of the first things you can do to make out well is the simple act of holding hands. If she is accepting of hand holding, you are ready for the next step in making out.
- Wrap your arms around her. Hugging is a natural progression in making out. Whether you are strolling along with one arm wrapped around her or standing at the door to say goodnight, a hug will lead to the next step of making out.
- Touch your lips to hers. Begin a kiss by gently touching your lips to hers. If she backs away from the kiss, that is your cue that she is not ready for french kissing. If she leans into your kiss, open your lips, and hers, and allow your tongue to slip into her mouth for a long, slow exploratory kiss.
- Let nature take it's course. Be bold enough to progress to each step in making out and ready to retreat back a step by following her cues. If she leans forward hungry and wanting more, give her more. If she tries to pull away, let her. She needs to set the pace so that you are a gentleman in her mind. This will gain her trust and you the advantage in being an expert in making out well.
Learning how to make out well means developing the skills and abilities to read your date's mind and body language. Each step will lead to the next step until you are both naked in each others arms. Always be patient in getting a girl to that point. For most girls, the foreplay is more important than the actual joining of two bodies.