How To Make Sex Fun
When women talk about a man being good in bed, they're usually thinking of a man who knows how to make sex fun. Even if you don't have perfect technique, if you can make sex fun, she's going to have a great time and want more. When you're in a new relationship, fun sex can be less intimidating and reduces tension. In a more established relationship, making sex fun is important if you want to keep it from getting boring. So what kind of things can you do to make sex fun?
- Have confidence in yourself! One of the most important steps you can take to make sex fun is to have confidence in yourself and your body. Face it, very few of us have a perfect body, and the likelihood is that your partner is more concerned about how they look than with how you look. Your confidence will shine through in everything you do, and helps to create a more relaxed and fun atmosphere for sex.
- Switch it up. Do things differently. Try different locations, different positions. Take a bath or shower together and lather each other up. Throw a blanket down and make love on the floor instead of in the bed. Try sitting in your favorite chair in the living room! Anything that's moves you out of your routine will shake things up and make sex fun.
- Communicate. We're not talking about generic "How was your day?" communication here. We talking about really communicating during sex. Tell her what you want her to do. Ask her what she wants you to do. Ask her if what you're doing feels good, or if she'd like you to do something different. Tell her how beautiful she looks, or how good what she's doing feels. Look at each other and smile. To make sex fun, you need to commit to actually being an active participant.