How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You

By: Robyn Cruze

Break Studios Contributing Writer

It is an age-old desire to discover how to make some one fall in love with you.  Quite honestly, if I really knew the perfect remedy for this question then I would be a billionaire.  For the truth is, there are so many different aspects of how someone responds to you as a person; looks, personality, smell, culture, their own personal history, are only a few.  

Having said that, we cannot possibly know how or what someone is looking for in a person, but there are a few things we can do to make sure we put our best foot forward.

  1. Be yourself. Making someone fall in love with you is much easier if you are yourself. Trying to be who you think that person wants you to be is a recipe for disaster, and ultimately a headache if you end up scoring someone who actually fell in love with someone else.
  2. Be confident. Just because you want this person to fall in love with you, doesn't mean you are less than.  Embrace who you are and attract them with your own je ne sais quoi. Most people are attracted to confident, strong, people. So be the best you can be whenever you are around them.
  3. Find out what their hobbies are and take them out on a date doing one of them. Statistics show that when people share hobbies and do them together it releases an attraction hormone. Even if it is finding out what their favorite restaurant is, take steps to do as many of these things as possible because repetition is important too.  It will leave you in good stead.
  4. Know what the other person wants. When you are in the middle of a hobby that you the person you are wanting to make fall in love with you likes. Do some gentle investigation. Knowing their criteria will allow you to evaluate yourself and place whatever criteria she has that you posses, in focus.
  5. Be forward with telling them what special qualities they have. It's hard not to fall in love with someone who loves so many things about them. It is human nature to want to be loved.  However, make a mental note here; it shouldn't be the only reason someone falls in love with you, but it will   get you on the right track to getting the person of your dreams.

Do all this and the answers is still in the envelope, only you will have had a better opportunity to gain some airtime in the person's mind that you so adore!

Posted on: Nov. 28, 2010