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How To Make Someone Love You Again

By: ShaQuanna Kilgore

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learning how to make someone love you again is a hard tactic that some people still do not have the correct form of action for. Loving someone from the beginning is complicated and causes conflict and pain, but to love again is like pulling teeth. The information below will provide tips on how to make someone love you again. But if you've never loved before you can still learn how to love wholeheartedly the first time so there will be no "again."

  1. Lead by example. Show the person that means everything to you that you still love them with all your heart no matter what flaws they may have. This lets the other person know that your not only loving them in their good times but through all of the bad as well. Unconditional love originates when a person cannot only be loved for their gifts but their flaws as well. Continue to do the sweet, kind, and romantic things that you did in the beginning and show signs that you're ready to give up. This will go a  long way in making someone love you again.
  2. Forgive and forget. Whether it's you or the one you love that did something to cause friction, forgive that person and move on to bettering the relationship and making them love you again. Forgiving gives you the opportunity to let old things die and new things flourish. No one loves to be constantly reminded of the past and the things they should have done different. Look forward by openly talking about each other likes and dislikes. Began a fresh start with positive and loving thoughts, encourage each other in the time of need.
  3. Take control. If this is someone who is open to how you feel then you will want to take control of the situation. Leave no room for negativity or doubt to seep into the mind. Be confident, knowing that you will one day be loved again by this individual. Explain to this person how life has been without their love and how important it is for you to have them by your side. The person will most likely admire the fact that you have taken control and have now put up a fight for what you know is yours. making someone love you again is not as tough as you might have imagined. In fact, it's only moments away from what you last remembered.
Posted on: Jul. 31, 2010