How To Massage The Prostate
Looking to spice up your love life by learning how to massage the prostate? No need to thumb through the “Kama Sutra” for tips and tricks. Grab your partner, get cozy and follow these easy steps for massaging the prostate.
To massage the prostate, you will need:
- Water-based lubricant
- Nitrile or latex glove
- Get comfortable. Before attempting to massage the prostate, take a shower or hot bath. Grab some water-based lubricant. The delicate tissues around the prostate injure easily so trim and file nails. Trade sensual massages with warmed oil to set the mood. Choose a comfortable position on the bed and engage in foreplay. The prostate swells in response to sexual arousal which makes it easier to find.
Find it. Once aroused, slowly insert a generously lubricated finger. Wear a latex or nitrile glove, if you prefer. Take your time as you prepare to massage the prostate. If your partner is searching for your prostate, tell her if you experience any discomfort. Point the probing finger up toward the stomach and gently stroke. The prostate feels like a small walnut. You may experience an odd sensation of pressure at the first touch.
Experiment. To massage the prostate, carefully move the pad of your finger over the raised bump. Make sure to use only the fleshy pad of the finger and not the nail. Try gentle circular motions or vary between side-to-side or back-and-forth movements. If nearing orgasm, pump the prostate to up the pleasure factor.
Props. After mastering manual prostate massage, introduce some new toys to the bedroom. Endless choices abound online with discreet shipping options available. Start with something simple. As with all things new, keep an open mind and a sense of humor as you expand your sexual boundaries.