How To Meet A Girl

By: Esther Lowery

Break Studios Contributing Writer

You are tired of trying to figure out how to get a girl and would like to know how to meet a girl. Going to bars and clubs trying to meet a girl may not always be ideal places to meet a girl, but if you do happen to see one you like, how do you approach her? It can be difficult just thinking about how to find that special someone, and knowing how approach a girl that you are interested in. There are ways to meet a girl and be able to sweep her off of her feet, and let her know what a great guy you are.  

  1. A girl needs to know that you exist. Don't expect to win a girl over if she does not even know that you are available. When you see here around make your presence known; make her notice you. Accidentally bump into her where she is, such as a store or bar. Don't let her get away without finding some way to get her attention.
  2. Mention something unique about her. Look at her and find something unique about her look that you can compliment and talk to her about. Make sure it is unique because she probably has heard it all from smile to pretty eyes. Notice something special like cute dimples, freckles, or the wonderful smell of her hair or perfume.
  3. Don't be easy, pay hard to get. As a man its good to seem interested, but don't seem too interested. Make a girl wonder why you are interested in her. Whatever you do never seem desperate. It is ok to offer your number and possibly to meet up one time, but just don't appear desperate.
  4. Leave no room for rejection. While everything is still good, that is the best time to get out. After you give her your number, walk away leaving no time for her to reject or approve of you. This will give her time to think about it and keep wondering what you are like. If a girl does happen to reject you right away, just move on and leave her alone. Don't ever stalk a girl or try to force her to like you. 
Posted on: Nov. 04, 2010