Learning how to meet selective swingers is a great way to have a good time and add some spice to your relationship. Perhaps the best part about swinging is that it is full of endless possibilities. Unfortunately, one of the drawbacks is that often you never know what you are going to get; and because meeting any swinger is hard, meeting swingers who fit a specific criteria is even harder. So in order to meet that perfect selective swinger, certain pieces of advice and rules should be heeded.
- When learning how to meet selective swingers, be wary of those who advertise. Yes, some couples will take out ads in local publications and on websites. It is never wise to answer these ads; it is better to meet people when you are on a common ground and on a common playing field.
- Visit a swingers clubs. Some cities have clubs that cater specifically to swingers. This is a great way to get out and meet someone new. Because the environment is friendly and advantageous to swinging, you are more likely to let loose and have a good time. Also, because some of these clubs have strict criteria, your chances of meeting the right couple increases exponentially.
- Start your own selective swinging club. Okay, so you should never answer someone else’s advertisement, but this does not mean that you cannot list your own. Take out an ad in a publication or website. Just make sure you are very specific about your criteria.
- Be prepared to travel. Hey, sometimes you need to travel to get what you want. This is especially true when you want to meet selective swingers. Many different clubs, spas and resorts host weekend or week long swinging getaways. Because some of these clubs have strict criteria, you can rest assured that you are getting what you want.