How Not To Be Jealous
There’s no challenge in figuring out how not to be jealous. Just don’t be jealous. Yeah, yeah doing something is always more difficult than saying it. Being jealous doesn’t get you anywhere in life, your career, or for the purposes of this piece, love life. Being jealous shows an internal weakness in you. And, no one likes a weakling. Regardless of where the source of jealousy is coming from, you can’t allow the jealousy to invade your psyche. Many times, weak minded women will try to make you jealous as some sort of a weird test. The first sign of jealousy on your part, and she’ll run with it. Well, don’t give her the satisfaction. Rejecting jealousy can actually work to your advantage in dealing with women like this. Here’s how not to be jealous.
- Realize what jealousy is. Jealousy is nothing more than a weak emotion brought out by a situation of someone having something and you not having it. This “something” could be money. It could be the affections of a woman you’re digging. Whatever the source of your jealousy may be, realize one thing. Just because he’s got it, doesn’t mean you can’t have it. There’s millions of ways to make millions of dollars, and the last time a census was done, there was more than one woman running around.
- Your self worth. People who are jealous of others basically feel that they themselves are inadequate in some way. Well, you need to realize that you’re in no way inadequate in comparison to someone else. You can’t be better than them at being them, and they can’t surpass you at being you. Be the best person you can be and stop worrying about other people.
- Transform jealousy. If you really want what somebody has, then focus your energies on obtaining what it is you want. This means spending your time developing yourself. This is far more positive and useful than wasting your time being pissed at the next man for having something you don’t have. Why waste your time being mad at the next man? Spend it being happy with your personal growth. Go get what you want.
- Silly women. As stated earlier, some women will actually try to run you through a ringer of jealousy. Is she your source of jealousy? Is this silly chick purposely trying to get under your skin? People that try to make others jealous are seriously lacking in the self esteem department, and are therefore very easy to make jealous themselves. If you’re dealing with a goofy woman such as this, simply don’t give her the satisfaction. Ignore her childish prodding. Act like it doesn’t matter. She’ll be mad, and a little jealous at you for not becoming jealous with her.