How To Perform Oral Sex On A Girl

By: Trina Berkeley

Break Studios Contributing Writer

So, you want to know how to perform oral sex on a girl. Let us emphasize that oral sex is an art that must be mastered. Your woman's love cave can be a welcoming beacon of desire or a dark and desolate cavern.  It all depends on your technique and willingness to get it right.

  1. Start slowly. Your first inclination is to just dive in and hit the clit. Do that and you might end up on the floor and not the bed. Take your time. Remember, women get hot slower than men.
  2. Kiss her body. Kiss her lips and slowly work your way down. Pepper her body with light nibbles (no bites), licks, and suckling. Draw a line from her navel to the top of her vagina with your tongue. Kiss and lick her inner thighs, working your way toward the nectar of her flower.
  3. Lick the lips. Lick the inner lips of her labia, slowly. This is an important part of oral sex. Pretend it's an ice cream cone. At first you lick slowly, but once it starts dripping, you have to lick it faster. Your woman's pleasure zone is the same way.
  4. Suck the labia. Suck and flick your tongue on the inner lips of her labia. These are sensitive and your tongue bath will have your girl writing in pleasure.
  5. Circle the clit. Circle her clitoris lightly with your tongue, reversing directions intermittently.
  6. Introduce your mouth to her clitoris. After you've got her hot, kiss her clitoris. Open your mouth, close it down gently but firmly, and suckle the clitoris lightly. Remember, this little nub is jam-packed with nerve endings. You don't need to go postal down there...yet. French kiss it, like you'd kiss her lips.
  7. Do not bite. We repeat, don't bite her! In fact, don't even use your teeth on the vagina unless she specifically asks you to. Even then, proceed with extreme caution.
  8. Use your fingers. Oral sex requires some multitasking. Do this right and you'll win her everlasting devotion. While your mouth is making love with her clitoris, explore the inner caverns with a finger or two. If you can feel her G-spot, all the better.
  9. Get into a rhythm. Let your girl lead you on this. By now, she should be gyrating in time to your tongue's ministrations. Time the finger-lovin' with her hip movements. If she's hot, her vagina may open up some more. If it does, try inserting another finger or two and set a good rhythm going.
  10. Shake things up. Make like a dog every now and then: shake your head while your tongue and nose are busy. This oral sex technique will drive her nuts. After a few shakes, go back to what you were doing before. 
  11. Increase the speed. You know she's about to cum when she grabs the top of your head and thrusts her pussy even harder into your face. Keep going, do not stray from your course of action, and increase your speed.
  12. Whatever you do, DON'T STOP! When she cums, keep hold of her hips, follow her with your head and keep licking and sucking until the last shudder of bliss is over. When she collapses in pleasure, you know you're the god of oral sex.

When you've gotten the hang of giving mind-blowing oral sex, try something different: write the ABCs with your tongue around her clit. If you master the art of oral sex, she'll beg to be the canvas for your tongue-brush.

Posted on: Oct. 29, 2010