How To Perform Oral Sex On A Woman
How to perform oral sex on a woman begins with realizing that there's more to her body than just her genitals. You have a lot of territory to explore before diving into the main attraction. So take your time and take the scenic route. You'll both enjoy it a lot more.
- The best technique to perform oral sex on a woman is to begin with her laying face down. Gently but firmly run the heel of your hand up her spine a few times. Then, grasp her shoulders and squeeze gently but firmly from her neck across her shoulders and upper back. Finally, begin massaging the sides of her torso, slipping your hands underneath now and then to caress her breasts (you're not a licensed masseur here, this is foreplay).
- Continue by massaging her buttocks, slipping your hand between legs periodically to stroke her vagina (once again, foreplay). Then continue performing oral sex by moving down the back of her legs, adding your tongue to your fingers. Make circle eights on the back of her knees then continue down her calves to her feet.
- Continue your oral sex technique by turning her over and kissing her feet and licking her ankles. Continue up the insides of her calves until you reach her knees. Gently spread her legs apart and run the tips of your fingers (maybe the heel too but not the whole hand) down to her vagina and back, three or four times.
- On the final trip down her legs, add your lips and tongue to your oral sex technique. When you reach her inner thighs, linger for a while just licking and kissing and stroking. She'll implore you to start eating her out but let her squirm just a little bit longer.
- When you're ready to begin the main course of your oral sex technique, stroke one or two fingers slowly and gently up and down her vulva, then follow with your tongue (not just the tip, lay it down flat). Use your left hand to pull back her abdomen's skin, allowing you to lick and suck on her fully exposed clitoris. At the same time, slip one or two fingers inside her vagina, curling them upward and inward to rub her G-spot.
- If your oral sex technique hasn't caused her to orgasm, begin pushing you away by now, begging you to stop, shift your left hand to stretch open her inner lips from the top. Then, withdraw your fingers and use your right hand to spread open her lips from the bottom. Then, run the tip (and maybe a little more) of your tongue around and around and around her inner lips before slowly swirling down, down, down into her vagina, wriggling your tongue the whole way.
- When you hit bottom, continue your oral sex technique on a woman by swirling your tongue around and around and around. Then shift your left hand so you can keep her lips spread open and the abdomen skin pulled back while planting your middle finger gently but firmly on her fully exposed clitoris and rubbing back and forth.
- Now withdraw your tongue and begin sucking her blood-engorged outer lips into your mouth, running your tongue up and down them again and again. If you can pull off doing several things as once, start humming something like the Star Spangled Banner. The vibrations will send her over the edge.
- Finally, know when to stop. If she pushes your head away instead of pressing it into her, take that as a signal to stop. For now.
Talk with her beforehand to discover exactly what she likes, although you may introduce her to a few new things.
No means no. If she says stop, stop. If she "really" means "yes," she won't hesitate to tell you to start again.