How To Phone Sex

By: Ziggy Coventry

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learning how to phone sex can be a great addition to your sex life. No, phone sex may not replace the real thing; but believe it or not, because it stimulates your imagination, it can be pleasing in a myriad of ways. It is a safe way to explore, meet new people, and share experiences with others that you may not feel comfortable with in a more intimate setting. It is also a great way to share an experience with a girlfriend, lover, or wife who may not be physically present. Yes, learning to phone sex can be very satisfying and stimulating. 

  1. Practice your sexy voice. You may not sound like Barry White, but you also do not want to end up sounding like Marge Simpson on the phone. To have phone sex, the women on the other end needs to be excited by your voice. Before you place that call, practice your sexy voice.  It should be lower and deeper, without sounding like a creepier. 
  2. Call at an appropriate time. Do not try to have phone sex at seven in the morning; no one wants to be woken up by the sound of deep breathing.  Also, calling too late can have its drawbacks.  You need to be fully alert and aware to really appreciate the benefits. 
  3. Get some practice in. If you are okay with spending the $1.99 a minute, then call one of those phone sex lines. These women, or men if you are into that kind of thing, are professionals; and, they can teach some good tricks. Just keep in on the time when you place that call, you do not want to end up spending too much. 
  4. Focus on her. You want to be soft gentle and soothing. The only way to do this is to focus your attention on her. Tell her how you want to make her feel good, and how you want to please her.  To have great phone sex you need to be attentive. 
  5. Use your imagination. It is also important to use your imagination. To be honest, during phone sex there really are no limitations except for those that you place on yourself. Before hand, discuss what the two of you are comfortable with, and then just let it all hang out. 
  6. Try role playing. Another great thing about having phone sex is that you can be whatever you want to be. You can change your appearance, your occupation, your size, your race; you can even change your gender.  So roles play and have some fun.    
Posted on: Nov. 17, 2010