How To Pick Up Hot Women
Some men are born with knowledge on how to pick up hot women. Other men have a hard time ordering a drink from a cute bartender without stammering. These tips on how to pick up hot women are for all you guys out there who might make some hot woman really happy, if you could just manage to talk to her without drooling on your collar. Here are five ideas to get you started.
- Don't be coy. When you approach hot women in a setting like a bar or a gym, they know the moment they spot you walking toward them that the odds are you're about to hit on them. Own it. Pretending you're just asking about their drink or how to use the weight machine they're on will only make you look timid. Feel free to start a real conversation before making your move, but don't act like you have innocent motives.
- Be confident. Picking up hot women can be intimidating. Resist the urge to apologize for yourself or your actions with lines like, "I'm sorry, I know you must get hit on all the time, but..." or, "Normally I don't approach women, but..." When you approach a hot woman, act like you have every right to be hitting on her. You do, after all. Unfortunately, she has every right to shoot you down.
- Have a question ready. Opening with a pickup line or a compliment is tricky. Once you spit it out, unless she has an interesting response, the conversation has nowhere to go. Instead, when you're picking up hot women open with a question. Try to make it interesting and in some way relevant to the setting, location, or activities going on around you.
- Have something to say. Your question may fall flat, or she just may not be bright enough or interesting enough to propel the conversation forward from there. Have a comment at the ready just in case the conversation dies. Again, make it about your surroundings. If both your question and comment fail to spur conversation, maybe it's time to focus on a slightly less hot, but more interesting woman.
- Be realistic. There are hot women and then there are goddesses. Think Sandra Bullock versus Marilyn Monroe. Sandra Bullock hooked up with Jesse James. Marilyn Monroe hooked up with Joe DeMaggio and Arthur Miller. Don't try to pick up Marilyn Monroe if your more Jesse than Joe.