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How To Pleasure My New Girlfriend

By: Ziggy Coventry

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Many men have long asked themselves the fated question, “How to pleasure my new girlfriend?”. You see, learning how to pleasure your girlfriend is the key to keeping her happy, especially if she is new. This may sound a little intimidating, but the news is not all that bad. To be honest, pleasuring your girlfriend is really not that hard. With a little bit of confidence and know how, you can enhance your skills and have her begging for more. 

To learn how to pleasure your new girlfriend you will need

  • Confidence/Imaginations
  • Contraceptives
  • Lube
  • Toys
  1. It all lies in confidence. If you say to yourself, “I have no idea how to pleasure my girlfriend,” then the chances are pretty high that you will never learn how to properly please her. You have to have confidence in yourself. Success in the bedroom is just like success in the real world. It takes practice, communication, and resilience. So even if you are no Don Juan between the sheets, stay in there and keep trying, she will be certain to appreciate your enthusiasm. 
  2. Focus on her. For women, receiving pleasure is not all about genital stimulation and getting off.  Sure this helps, but they really just want you to focus on them. With this in mind, when faced with the challenge of pleasuring your girlfriend, especially a new girlfriend, try to place all of your attention on her. Do not worry about getting yourself off. Just focus on pleasing her.
  3. Increase your stamina. You do not need to be a marathon man in bed, but you should at least be able to go the distance every now and again. If you are one of those thirty seconds and done guys, this really might not cut it. When you are with your new girlfriend, she wants to know that you can take her all the way, and that you can pleasure her. Now, do not fret if you have on occasion blown it early; this happens to every guy; but this cannot happen every time. You have to be able to deliver on a fairly consistent basis.  If endurance and stamina are your problem then work on it. Practice the squeeze and rhythm methods. 
  4. Use your imagination. If you really want to pleasure your new girlfriend and take her to places she has never been, then you are going to have to use your imagination. Of course, imagination means using tongue, fingers, and toys. Basically, anything that the two of you are comfortable doing. With a little imagination and a little confidence, you can pleasure her and do things to her that she has never dreamed of. 
Posted on: Nov. 17, 2010