How To Pleasure A Woman With Your Hand
Want to learn how to pleasure a woman with your hand? Being a good lover means being able to please your partner, and keeping her thoughts, needs, and feelings in mind—not just your own. Read on for specific information on how to pleasure a woman with your hand.
- Use gentle pressure. First of all, because everyone is different in terms of sensation, you should start off gently as being too rough or forceful isn't a turn on for everyone. You're aiming for pleasure here, so think gentle caresses with well-lubricated hands.
- Be aware of sensitive zones. Women are especially sensitive in certain areas. Breasts are obviously one of these areas. Some women like to have their breasts gently caressed while some would prefer to have their nipples gently pulled or pinched. Other sensitive areas are the buttocks which can be gently squeezed and the inner thighs that can be caressed with long rubbing movements.
- Lubrication. If you're going to pleasure a woman in the panty area, you should start by rubbing on the outside of the panties in order to start the engine. If you choose to enter in, there has to be plenty of lubrication in order for this to be pleasurable—either natural lubrication or some sort of artificial lubrication gel designed for sexual lubrication such as K-Y Jelly should be used.
- Remember women are like men. The clitoris, the little button that gets hard when rubbed or stimulated, is the female equivalent of a penis. There are many nerve endings in that little area, and it gets erect when stimulated. Short, fast movements in this area with your hand are usually very pleasurable for a woman.
Now you know how to pleasure a woman with your hand. Make sure your hands are soft—regularly use some lotion on your hands to make sure they don't feel like sand paper. Keep in mind the areas that women like to have stimulated, and us sexual lubricant if necessary. Understanding the female anatomy, especially the clitoris, can assist you in pleasuring a woman with your hands.