How To Pleasure A Woman
As a straight man, you need to know how to pleasure a woman. You can help disprove the stereotype that men are just there to get their rocks off by giving your woman the loving attention she needs to reach her climax. Plus, women find nothing sexier than a man that knows what he is doing.
- Knowing where to kiss. Men often joke about how hard it is to find a woman’s clitoris, but there are two things to remember: there is a lot more to oral sex than the clitoris and, if you take the time to find these other spots, finding the clitoris will be easy. So do not dive in just looking for the clit. Instead, take the time to stimulate and appreciate your partner’s body, from her inner thighs and her labia, to her clitoris and vagina. Kiss, suck and lick gently all over before starting any aggressive tonguing.
- The importance of lubricant. Even if your lady is the one initiating you going down on her, she is not necessarily very wet. Use your lips and tongue to help get her moist. Gentle licking and kissing will not only help her warm up and get wet, it will also add your saliva to the mix and make what you are doing feel smooth and pleasurable. Do not move on to aggressive licking or sucking until you are sure she is wet enough to enjoy it.
- Finding her clitoris. Once you have your lady wet and hot, finding the clitoris should be easy. It is positioned right where her inner labia comes together at the top of her vulva - the technical term for her bits. When she is excited, her clitoris will swell with blood - just like a penis - and will be easier to find. The amount of nerves present can sometimes make touch feel painful for women, so proceed with caution and follow the sound of her moans. If she likes the contact, experiment with sucking on her clit or licking it firmly and quickly.
- Penetration. What happens next depends on your woman. Does she want your tongue, your finger or your penis inside of her? Do not be afraid to ask her beforehand or experiment in the moment. Most importantly, when you are between her legs, remember you are there for her pleasure primarily. Do not get distracted by your own arousal.