How To Pleasure Yourself
There are different ways to learn how to pleasure yourself as a man. In truth, there are different ways for every individual to pleasure himself, as everyone often likes or is pleasured by something different. The following instructions on how to pleasure yourself are just general bits of advice that should be taken when embarking on this fun, necessary task. The specifics of exactly how you are pleasured should be left up to you and your own specific likes and desires.
In order to pleasure yourself, you may need:
- Sex toys
- Your imagination
- Find something that excites you. This is the first step in pleasuring yourself and it is by far the most diverse. Some people like watching pornography. Some people like reading erotic books. Some people like to dress in furry suits and eat cherry pie while watching "Happy Days" reruns. Whatever it is that allows you to pleasure yourself and as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else, then it's usually OK. Try to isolate whatever it is that excites you and do it.
- Touch your genitals in the most sensitive spot. This also varies for everyone but is usually relatively specific on men, based on basic anatomy and the location of the number of sensitive nerve endings. This anatomical location is usually near the head of the penis or on the head of the penis itself. Touch, stroke or rub this area gently and then repeat, growing in intensity as you see fit.
- While doing this, think about things that excite you. Combining the first two steps now, you will have to get your mind in the proper place in order to properly pleasure yourself. Think about past sexual experiences or things that excite you while you look at something that also excites you and touch yourself. With concentration, the right type of exciting content and the correct type of touching, you should be able to properly pleasure yourself and orgasm.