How To Prepare For My First Threesome

If you are wondering how to prepare for your first threesome, all you have to keep in mind are a few simple steps. You will want to make sure the environment is right and you have the right participants chosen. What you are about to embark on is every man’s fantasy, so get things in line, then lie back and enjoy! 

  1. Pick the right ladies. It’s not just any woman who will take part in a threesome adventure, so to prepare, make sure you carefully pick your partners. The girls involved should be adventurous, comfortable in their own skin and not likely to back out or get cold feet. In addition, they should hopefully be willing to do stuff with each other. And if they’re hot, well, obviously that’s a plus.
  2. Have some booze on hand. Taking part in group sex can be nerve-wracking, so it’s not a bad idea to have some alcohol handy to take the edge off. To prepare for your first threesome, have some wine, beer or hard liquor ready to serve, depending on the preferences of those involved. It wouldn’t hurt to have some experience with mixing drinks, so you can make things to order.
  3. Safe sex. To prepare for your first threesome, it’s a good idea to have condoms at the ready. It may be that you know these women well enough that none of you are worried about sexually transmitted diseases, but if you’re not sure, you definitely want to be ready with condoms. You would hate to get to your big moment and have your partners decide to go home because they’re not big on the idea of barebacking.  
  4. Get the room ready. Whether this event is taking place at your house, in a hotel or someplace else you have to make sure the environment is right for the threesome. Make sure that you’ve got clean sheets and linens, have the temperature properly modulated, have some nice music playing and eliminate any potential foul odors with some nice candles.
  5. Save up. No, not financially, but save up your orgasms. To prepare for your first threesome, you should abstain from sex or masturbating for a couple days prior. You are going to want to have several orgasms at the ready for your two ladies and if you’re depleted, you might not be able to please them as much as they want to be pleased. Try to avoid touching yourself for at least three days prior to the big event.

 

 

What Others Are Reading Right Now.

  • Speakeasy

    Acting, comedy and strong spirits converge in Speakeasy. When host Paul F. Tompkins interviews entertainers—Key and Peele, Alison Brie, Rob Delaney, Zach Galifianakis—about all sor ...

  • What to Drink on Labor Day

    Seven options to see out the summer with style. And by style we mean a cool buzz.

  • 10 Things to Talk About This Weekend

    A 99-pack and nine other nuggets of conversational fodder.