How To Save Relationship With Your Girlfriend
If you are having relationship problems, then you need to know how to save your relationship with your girlfriend. This is definitely not a fool proof strategy guide, but there are some things that you need to keep in mind when trying to save your relationship with your girlfriend because there are mistakes that everybody makes. The most important aspect is that you go into the conversation to save your relationship with a plan, which is what you are being proactive about just by being here!
- The first thing you need to do is take a long look at yourself. Establish if it was your fault the relationship with your girlfriend needs saving or not. This is the time to be completely honest with yourself, what did you do that could have caused the problems with the relationship so badly that it needs to be “saved”. Analyze your day to day actions and see where you went wrong. Did you make her feel inferior? Did you make her feel special? Did you talk to her or did you try and avoid talking as much as possible? These and other type questions will help to establish if you were the issue and if you need to change.
- After you have analyzed yourself, start to change it. One thing to do is if you’re not in the habit of being a gentlemen, do it to random people in public. This will help you to establish a sense of rhythm in your day to day life that can then transcend over into your hopefully soon to be saved relationship with your girlfriend. Keep in mind there are some things you will only be able to work on while in the relationship such as telling her you love her everyday and other special compliments.
- Once you have done what you could to change yourself, it’s time to get together and analyze the relationship. This is the make and break point for the future of you and your girlfriend. You need to both establish what went wrong while you were dating and if it can be saved. Sometimes, the timing is just bad for either one of you for whatever reason and you may not have been ready for a relationship. But other times, people are just not compatible past that physical attraction, and this is identified by constant fighting between yourselves or a mutual sense of animosity towards you and your girlfriend. These are usually the relationships that should not be saved because you and your girlfriend aren’t compatible.
- If you are still gunning to save your relationship, it’s time to start making changes. Tell the other person what they do to annoy you and have total amnesty while talking. The best way to do this step of saving the relationship is doing a give and take, so she says something, and then you say something and so on. This step will definitely be where you decide whether or not the relationship is worth saving!