Seducing a coworker is a delicate process that requires finesse and secrecy. Although it is nice to have a little fun in the office, you should also focus on keeping your job . So to avoid getting fired or accused of sexual harassment, there are a few rules you need to follow.
- Choose a co-worker who is willing to be seduced. Most likely, this will be the most difficult step, but it is absolutely necessary to be cautious. Do not flirt aggressively with co-workers in the beginning; do small things such as smiling and winking. If she doesn't return your sentiments, stop immediately. If she accepts your affections, flirt more aggressively; stand close to her when you have a conversation and touch her hands and shoulders when the opportunity arises. Caution: Do not rush the initial flirtation. Stick to small seductive gestures until you are certain she appreciates your attention. Be aware of your co-worker's body language and reactions to your gestures. The last thing you want is a complaint against you because of a misunderstanding.
- Try your best to keep the seduction a secret. Many companies do not allow co-workers to date, so make sure you don't get caught. Find times and places where you can be alone with her. If she is goes on a break, accompany her and go to a place where you will not be easily seen. Avoid consistent, scheduled meetings so your other co-workers don't become suspicious; switch up the places and times of your meetings.
- Don't go overboard. Office trysts can easily get out of hand if you take too many risks. Regardless of how long the intimacy has occurred without being noticed, you are not invincible. Quickies in the supply office and in the parking lot are unacceptable. Employers install security cameras through out the building that are unknown to their employees. If you wish to engage in sexual activity with a co-worker, do it outside of work hours and away from work property. The next morning, do not make it obvious that you spent the night together. Come in to work separately and don't discuss what occurred in the office.
- Have fun, but always be cautious. Don't get lost in the excitement of the seduction. It is possible to continue your office romance and keep your job if you are careful.