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How to Seduce an Ex-Girlfriend

By: Tanya Joel

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you want to know how to seduce an ex-girlfriend, there is one important thing to keep in mind.  Women are suckers when it comes to the past.  All it will take for you to seduce an ex-girlfriend is to remind her of the good times you shared.  That's it!  Even if you had a really bad break-up, and you both said horribly cruel things to one another, you can still melt her heart by reminding her of the things you once did together. 

Here are five things you can do to seduce an ex-girlfriend.  Pay attention guys.

  1. Call up your ex-girlfriend and tell her you need to talk.  Try to get her to meet you at either her place or yours.  If she won't go for it, choose a quiet spot to meet, such as a park, a local coffee shop, or any low-traffic area.   Remember the art of seduction does not have to necessarily include candlelight and roses.
  2. Show her you're sentimental. When you meet, start talking about some memento you found that she gave you when you were dating.  Mention that you found ticket stubs from a movie you went and saw together, or tell her how you stumbled upon a love letter she wrote you when you were together.  Anything sentimental will do.  Your ex-girlfriend will be touched that you held on to this item, and she will immediately soften.
  3. Reflect on the past. During the course of conversation, very casually show her a photo you found that will remind her of a fun time you shared.  This could be a photo of a day at the beach, of a fun hiking trip you took, or any happy photo that you may have.  Tell her you got emotional when you found the picture—it reminded you of how happy you were when you were with her.
  4. Let her know you still think of her.  (If you want to know how to seduce an ex-girlfriend, pay attention to this next tip) This is a subtle way to let her know that she is always on your mind.  Tell your ex that couldn't sleep the other night because you were thinking about her.  Since you couldn't sleep, you went out to grab a beer by yourself.  While at the bar, some girl walked by that was wearing the perfume your ex-girlfriend used to wear.  After that, your entire night was "ruined," and you had to go home alone.  Even if she acts like this isn't a big deal, inside she's going to be thinking, "He remembered my perfume!" (Trust us).
  5. Deny seeing anyone else. After you ex-girlfriend has softened up, she will inevitably ask if you have been out with anyone since you broke up.  SAY NO!  It doesn't matter if it's true or not, if you want any chance to seduce your ex-girlfriend, you must say no.  You'll see a little smile form at the corner of her mouth.  That's the signal you need to start making your move.

That's all there is to seducing an ex-girlfriend.  Show her your sensitive side, and you're in. 

Posted on: Mar. 13, 2010