Since the dawn of man, we have all been wondering how to seduce a random girl. We see them everywhere. They're on the street, in the library, and in bars across the world. But we don't know what to say. How do you strike up a conversation without them feeling threatened or annoyed? It's not as hard as you might think, but it does take practice.
- Get over approach anxiety. Ninety five percent of men are stricken with approach anxiety and would rather die than try to seduce a random girl. The thing about approach anxiety is that it can be overcome with the right tools. The best thing to do is have a routine in hand. You don't need some tired pick-up line. You need something that is going to put her at ease and show that you're not a creepo. This could be as easy as “hello”. When you do this, you can bring the barriers down.
- Move to a new location. Seducing a random girl in public can actually work in your favor. Ask them if they would like to get a cup of coffee or go shopping with you. This is great because you have an instant date. Once you are on the instant date, try to act as if you are a couple. Ask them questions about the things around you. If you are near a clothing store, ask them what you would look good in. Even if you're not going to buy anything, act as if you are. This gives the illusion that you have disposable income even if you don't.
- Set a time barrier once things are at their peak. Tell her that you have to go because of something. You can make this up or you can actually have something that you need to do. The trick is to leave confidently and make it look like you are important. The way you come off right off the bat is key to the seduction seduction process with any girl.
- Set up a date for later that night. Setting a date for the same night gives the next couple of hours mystery. This mystery is going to get her thinking about what else you could do together. Once you secure your night date, you need to pick some place cool and calm. Take her to a bar that is low key or a restaurant that is very quiet. Ask her a ton of questions. She should always be speaking unless she asks you a question. Women love to talk about themselves so let them.
- Get her back to your place. The whole point of seducing a random girl is to try to get them back to your place. A tried and true method of getting girls back to your house is by asking if they want to go back to your place and watch a movie. This is one of the best ways of asking them exactly what you want to without actually asking them what you want to. By asking them if they want to watch a movie, you're actually asking them if they want to have sex. If they're interested, they will come back to your place. If they say they have to get up in the morning, they might be interested but actually have to get up.
Seducing a random girl can seem like a hard process, but it can get easier with more practice. When you're practicing, make sure that you're following these guidelines and you will surely be able to seduce any random girl you meet.
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