How To Seduce Women


When thinking about how to seduce women, it would be easy to automatically jump straight to the wine and dine and then bingo, she wants you.  Um… Nope. If you want to seduce a woman and get  her wanting you to ravish her entire being, well then, don’t kid yourself; that usually takes a little more effort.  If you really want to know how to seduce a woman, follow these steps:

  1. Get her flirting juices flowing. When you want to seduce a woman, don't pretend to not notice her or ogle her with your sex eyes. It's a little off-putting when you first meet someone. It could give off the "weirdo" vibe. So just simply smile and say, "Hi". Yes, it's so simple, but when your heart is caught off guard, you should be cautious of saying too much and blundering and/or babbling.  It's not a good look.
  2. Be and look your best. Take pride in what you wear, how you groom and how you dress.  Smell like you care, not like two-day old socks.  It's an automatic turn off for women.  You want to put your best foot forward just in case you bump into her.  Self care is considered a huge deal to most women.  Your smell states whether you are a frat-boy or a man.
  3. Imprint yourself in her conscious. If she is a work colleague, find out where she goes out for drinks after work or eats her lunch.  Then introduce yourself, but don't stalk her by following her around. If you see her, just say, "Hi, I've noticed you around.  I'm [insert name], I wanted to introduce myself to you. I hope to see you again soon."  Then once you've done that be sure to have a place to go.  Whatever you do, don't stand there and make her feel awkward.
  4. Invite her out on a date with a compliment.  To fully seduce a woman you need some one-on-one time. So invite her out on a date by starting off your conversation with telling her a quality that you like about her. Don’t start off with something about her ass or her boobs – that can come later… and so will you, if you're lucky. When seducing a woman, say something , for example: "you seem like a really cool person, I'd love to get to know you better.  Can I take you out on a date?" Then if you want, you can throw in a line about how hot she looks at that moment.
  5. Take it slow. Why not use your first few dates as foreplay? Your actions around seducing a woman should be slow and steady.  Think lots of foreplay opposed to "wham bam thank you mam."   Seducing a woman is more about getting her excited about you and the possibilities.
  6. Be confident, but don't be a douchebag.  I cannot emphasize this enough people, women love to be in the company of a real man that knows his worth and doesn’t feel as if he needs to sell himself during the entire course of dinner.  Don't come across as a tosser.
  7. Be direct. Tell her exactly what you want.  Don’t beat around the bush.  If you want hot sex, paint the picture for her. Tell her what you want to do to her.  Tell her in detail.  Don’t play games.  Stop thinking that every woman wants only to find a man and settle down.  Remember, women are sexually liberated beings too.
  8. Make it about her.  Women want to feel special.  Spend some time talking about her. For example, ask her what her interests are and if possible, relate to them in a positive way.  This will make your woman comfortable to be herself and then, eventually comfortable enough to get naked. 

Follow these steps and you will not only have seduced your woman, you would have conquered it with dignity and respect for all.  What more could you ask for?


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