How To Solve Premature Ejaculation

By: BWalter

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learning how to solve premature ejaculation involves three things. Premature ejaculation can be corrected with a little discipline, mind control, and well, practice. Premature ejaculation is one of those things that is very funny, when it happens to somebody else. If you’re the one dealing with premature ejaculation issues it really sucks. It can really begin to dig into your confidence. Well, it’s time to kick premature ejaculation’s ass. Getting yourself mentally fit will knock your adversary out cold. Get ready to become a better lover. Here’s how to solve your problem of premature ejaculation.

  1. Understanding your enemy. Premature ejaculation is, of course, when you come entirely too fast when you’re in the sack. But, why does it happen? The truth is, it could be for a number of reasons. Your reasons may not mirror the next guy. You have to figure out what’s going on with your mind and body. Some guys are just super sensitive. Others have an overactive mind. Either way, you’re getting too excited entirely too quickly. Figure out what the root of your premature ejaculation is. Once you know, you can work around it very easily.
  2. If you’re sensitive. It’s quite alright. There are a few ways to get around this. Certain sexual positions promote maximum pleasure for her while minimizing your stimulation. Doggy style and certain variations of other positions are designed to wear her out while keeping you going. Basically, you want to focus on positions that you control. Oh and condoms desensitize you slightly. If you need more, there’s all types of creams you could buy.
  3. Mind control. If your mind get’s overactive during sex, you need to figure out how to shut it off. When you’re with a woman, it’s natural to start thinking about her beautiful curves, her smells, her noises. You’re a man. You’re supposed to fixate on these things. Try this out though. Once you get in there and the sex starts getting too good, try to clear your mind. Let your body continue its actions but take your mind somewhere else. Think about that football game or something un-sexual. Don’t look at her enjoying the sex. Just try to block the sexual situation you’re a part of out of your mind.
  4. Know you. If you’re getting close to coming, slow down or vary what you’re doing. As long as your woman is still receiving pleasure, she isn’t going to care what you do. Say, for instance, she’s riding you. If you feel like you’re getting close, flip her over and give it to her from another angle. Or, even better, go down on her. This’ll give you a chance to regroup without taking pleasure away from her. Here’s another trick. Squeezing your penis will slow down the coming process as well. Just don’t hurt yourself.
  5. Practice. The only way to truly kick premature ejaculation’s ass is to practice. Once you’ve figured out the cause for your premature release, all you need to do is practice the techniques mentioned. You’ll notice that you’ll be lasting longer and longer.
Posted on: Oct. 24, 2010