How To Spank A Woman
If you have a spanking fetish, you may find yourself wondering how to spank a woman without freaking her out and sending her running for the door. In fact, spanking is a relatively harmless activity that you can bring to the bedroom to spice up a dull sex life.
- Discuss your spanking fetish with your woman. One of the best ways to gauge if she will be okay with you spanking her is to ask her how she feels about it. While this takes either a bold person or a couple that has been in a relationship for a while, asking her if she will give it a shot prevents you from spanking her and feeling awkward afterwards.
- Sneak your way in. Give her a small tap on her bottom during foreplay and see how she reacts. If she comments or makes a face that let's you know she likes it, try spanking a bit harder.
- Get in the right position. Some sexual positions, like missionary style, do not set your bodies into the right arrangement for you to easily spank her during intercourse. Try out other positions, such as woman on top, reverse cowboy and doggy style, that give you access to her rear so you can give that dirty girl the spanking she deserves without straining your arm.
- Choose a safety word. If you are both into darker sexual pleasures, like bondage, choose a safety word for both of you that you can yell if the spanking gets a bit more rough than desired. Make sure you choose a random safety word that you will not yell during sex, so that the partner in control can immediately recognize that he or she needs to stop.