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How To Spice Up My Sex Life

By: Sophie Southern

Break Studios Contributing Writer

This article will provide some tips and tricks if you've been asking yourself "how to sex up my sex life?" In today’s modern world, sex can be both exciting and intimidating. You wonder if your performance is up to par, if she is achieving orgasm and if there’s more your could bring to the bedroom. If you’re looking for a little extra sizzle between the sheets, here’s how to spice up your sex life.

  1. Be Confident. You know how men are attracted to confident women? This works both ways. Women are turned on by a guy who is confident and secure in himself, especially in the bedroom. Take charge of the situation and show her you want her; if you’re not sure about whether or not she’s enjoying it, just ask. If you are not naturally confident, fake it and the real confidence will come eventually.
  2. Don't Be Afraid To Try New Things. Just because all women are not necessarily into super-kinky doesn’t mean they’re not open or willing to try new things. If you are interested in role playing or accessories, talk to her about it. Try buying her an outfit you’d like to see her in and tell her how sexy you think she will look in it. Tell her about your fantasies and what you have always wanted to try and you’re sure to find something that’ll spark her desires and spice up your sex life.
  3. Change Up Your Schedule. Predictability can kill the sizzle in your sex life faster than you think. If you normally have sex at night, try initiating in the morning or calling her during her lunch break for a little afternoon delight. A predictable schedule is boring and adding spice to your sex life is all  about the unexpected.
Posted on: Nov. 13, 2010