How To Stimulate The Clitoris

By: Sarah Porter-Pennington

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you want to show your girl a real good time, then learn how to stimulate the clitoris. The clitoris, also referred to as the clit, is a nub of flesh at the very top of the female genitals, between the vaginal lips. This nub of flesh contains more nerve endings than any other part of the male or female body and, for this reason, is the most sensitive erogenous spot on a woman’s body. Clitoral stimulation alone can result in the vagina becoming wet, orgasm and even female ejaculation.

  1. Massage the clitoris with your fingers. Lightly flick your fingertips over the clitoris to stimulate and excite your female sex partner. You may also provide stimulation to the clitoris by pressing firmly in pulses or pressing firmly and then drawing slow circles around and over the clit with your finger or thumb.
  2. Provide oral stimulation. Your tongue, lips and even teeth can provide a way to stimulate the clitoris. Flick your tongue rapidly or slowly across the clit, suck with your lips or provide gentle nibbles with your teeth. Note which of these actions derives the biggest response from your partner and repeat as necessary until you reach the intended result.
  3. Press a vibrating sex toy against the clitoris. When the clitoris receives stimulation from a vibrating object, such as a vibrator, clitoral or nipple stimulator for only a few seconds, the vaginal cavity often becomes wet. In addition to lubricating the vagina, stimulation by vibration also results in female ejaculation and orgasm.
Posted on: Nov. 13, 2010