How To Stimulate Prostate
So you want to learn how to stimulate prostate. Before you can begin to stimulate the prostate, you must first learn where to find it. The prostate is located at the base of the penis, where the penis actually begins on the inside of the body. It is about the size of a chestnut and is found underneath the bladder. The prostate produces some of the seminal fluid and is often referred to as the male G spot. Many people think of this area as a taboo but it can be a place of great pleasure for the man.
To stimulate the prostate, you will need:
- Wet wipes
- Neatly trimmed finger nails
- Toys without sharp edges
- Relax. The most important step to stimulating the prostate is to relax. Clear your mind of any misconceptions or stigmas that may come with the thought of stimulating the prostate. Relaxing will make finding and stimulating the prostate a much easier job.
- Be gentle. When stimulating the prostate through the anus some care must be used. The opening of the anus is delicate and can rip or tear easily. Be sure that all fingernails are trimmed and do not have any jagged edges. If you are using sex toys make sure the seams are smooth.
- Get comfortable. Both the giver and receiver should be in a comfortable position. Apply lubricant to the finger or toy, which ever you are going to use. Gently apply pressure to the anus. You may need to massage the area to relax the muscles.
- The massage. Once you have entered the anus, you need to go about 2 inches or so. In a come hither fashion, crook the finger upwards to find the oval or round gland. Once you have located the prostate apply pressure and move fingertip in a slight circular motion. Watch for visual clues from the receiver to see what motions turn him on more.
- The finale. Prostate massage alone can cause ejaculation. This is called milking the prostate. The seminal fluid will slowly flow from the penis. While the prostate is being massaged you can also be giving exterior stimulation. By giving the receiver a hand job or jacking him off and massaging the prostate at the same time the receiver can have the grand finale.