Do you want to learn how to talk dirty during sex but don't know how to start? Sometimes shyness gets in the way of talking dirty to your girl. Don't be shy, give dirty talk a try. It's a fun way to express yourself during sex and the results might surprise you.
- Know the ways. There are so many ways to talk dirty during sex. The main thing you want to keep in mind is that what you've watched on porno flicks ain't where it's at. If you enjoy dirty talk during sex, realize that not all women are comfortable with it. Start out slow, talk about it outside of the bedroom and introduce dirty talk in a pleasing manner if your girl isn't used to the smut.
- Use your voice. Know how to use your voice when you talk dirty during sex. The pitch and tone, along with the words you choose, should match what's happening. In other words, you don't want to scream obscenities at your girlfriend during orgasm if she's the quiet type. You don't want to call her demeaning names unless she enjoys it. When things are smooth between you, go easy-use a lower pitch and tone. If you're hitting it hard and heavy while your girl is groaning in pleasure, you can up the ante and be powerful with your words. Soft sex calls for soft pitches and words. Harder, rougher sex means rising above whispers and hints.
- Practice makes perfect. As with any speech, practice makes perfect when you talk dirty during sex. if you've never done it before, you will want to give it a go by yourself before speaking to your girlfriend. While you're treating yourself to a five finger workout, talk about what's happening, what feels good, what you want more of. Listen to your voice and how you sound. You want to be super sexy for your girl, because the point of talking dirty during sex is to turn her on!
- Stop if she objects. Face it, some women never get the hang of dirty talk during sex. Whatever the hang up or lack of desire, it really doesn't matter at the end of the day. She doesn't want to hear it and it's not increasing her desire. Stop the sexy talk immediately. Otherwise, you might end up with an angry girl in bed with you.
- Encourage her to join in. On the other hand, some girls really enjoy and already know how to talk dirty during sex. This is the prize you've waited for, so enjoy. Encourage your partner to join in and have fun with the dirty talk. It's great when two people are sexually compatible. You'll be the envy of your friends.