How To Talk Dirty On The Phone

Knowing how to talk dirty on the phone can help heighten the sexual chemistry between you and your partner. Dirty or sexy things that you might be embarrassed to say in person might be easily said over the phone during what is referred to as phone sex. You will also be able to arouse your partner and make her want you even more when you’re finally together if you use some basic phone sex and dirty talk techniques.

1. Time when you decide to talk dirty on the phone carefully. Pick a time to talk dirty to your partner on the phone that makes sense. If it’s a work call, try to wait until after lunch or after her big presentation to start the dirty talk. A time when she’s alone and looking forward to the end of the day is best. If you and your partner are separated, such as when she’s out of town, wait until nighttime when she’s likely snuggled up in bed to make the phone sex call.
2. Use a sexy tone of voice when you talk dirty. When you call your partner, keep your tone soft, sexy and maybe a little breathy. Throw in a few soft pleasure moans as you dirty talk so she knows she’s turning you on and to make the phone sex more arousing.
3. Describe sexy activities you like. This should be something you and your partner like to do together. Since you don’t have sight or touch when talking on the phone, you’ll need to be extra descriptive with your dirty talk, and don’t forget to talk about how much the phone sex is turning you on.
4. Tell her you’d like her to touch herself and talk dirty at the same time. Even if she doesn’t really do it, this can make for great dirty talk on the phone. Tell her how it would turn you on and how you wish you could be there to watch her. Describe to her what you’re imagining. Even if she’s in sweats, if you describe her wearing a sexy negligee, it will make her feel sexy and more willing to participate in the dirty talk over the phone.
5. Focus on what you’re going to do when you see each other. Talk dirty and focus on what it will be like to finally get her into your bedroom. Start slow by talking about how you’ll undress her. Then, focus your dirty talk on more explicit sexual activities. Again, since it’s phone sex, you’ll need to be extra descriptive with your dirty talk.