How To Talk To Girls On The Phone

By: Greg Hawood

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Knowing how to talk to girls on the phone can be the difference between a single life and a life full of fun. Women love to chit-chat on the telephone about anything and everything with female friends. Guys who know how to talk on the phone for hours,stand a much better chance of winning their hearts. Depending on the time of day or the depth of the relationship, phone talks can be informative, fun or even sexy.

  1. Above all, listen to her. The most important thing guys need to learn about how to talk to girls on the phone is knowing when not to talk. Girls like to vent and air their frustrations with friends, work and school. Do not interrupt them just let them have they say and be a sympathetic sponge. 
  2. Be funny. Girls like to laugh and if you are shy in-person, then learn how to talk to girls in a funny manner on the phone. Make a few self-deprecating remarks so she knows you are not in love with yourself but do not make too many or she will think you are a clown. Tell funny tales about mischief you were involved in as a kid or crazy things you do at work. Make her laugh and you are a step nearer to her bed.
  3.  Gossip. Find out all of the most salacious gossip in town and call your female friends to let them know the scoop. Girls talk to other girls on the phone about sex scandals, enemies and "frenemies" and you will get brownie points if you do the digging and fill them in. If you learn how talk about gossip on the phone you are only one step away from being invited to in person gossip sessions which are sacred to females.
  4.  Talk about animals. Girls like sensitive guys, so talk to girls on the phone about your long lost pet dog or you first pet goldfish that died after 24 hours. Make the stories sad so you get her sympathy and it gives her the impression that you have emotions. If you do not have any good pet tales to talk to girls about then make them up.
  5. Fashion. This is risky because if you are too into fashion your female friend might think you are gay but some knowledge of style makes you a trendy metro-sexual. Keep up to date with the latest fashions online and in magazines and look at what people like Lady Gaga are wearing if you want to be a little risque. Fashion is a key part of every girls chat time so if you want to talk to girls on the phone get down with what's hot on the Milan catwalks.
Posted on: Nov. 03, 2010