How To Talk With Women

By: Sylvia Tsang

Break Studios Contributing Writer

In order to get any woman to like you, you should know how to talk with women. Keep in mind that a conversation is a starter to any relationship. Things will move smoothly if you can generate a great conversation with them or a boring conversation can kill the deal in a second. Regardless of what type of personality you have, you can surely talk with women by simply following these three easy tips.

  1. Pick an appropriate topic. The first tip on how to talk with women is to have a discussion on a good topic. You might pick something based on the situation accordingly. Let’s say you run into a beautiful woman at a bookstore. Note that she has a Dean Koontz novel in hand. Approach her gently and make this comment, “Hello there! What a coincidence! I'm also a huge fan of Dean Koontz. What other suspense thriller authors do you like?” More than likely, you can expect an immediate discussion on the spot.
  2. Use a sense of humor. The second tip on how to talk with women is to put your humor at work. For example, you just spot this cutie pie having a drink at the bar of a restaurant. She takes out her cell phone and starts chuckling at it. At this point, you carry a very sad look and walk up to her gradually and say, “Hey, I just want to say 'Thank You' to you!” When she looks at you and asks what for, you will answer her with this line: “Oh, your gorgeous smiles have just brightened up my terrible day! May I get you something?” You can expect a "Yes" along with more chuckles and chat.  
  3. Give her compliments. The last tip on how to talk with women is to give her compliments. Besides women love men who have a sense of humor, they also appreciate the nice things that you would say to them. Here is a situation: You see a group of women hanging out at a club. One of them looks absolutely outstanding. Once her friends walk away from her, you go up to her causally and say this sincerely, “Hi, I can’t help it but to come over here to tell you that you have super sexy eyes! It would be my honor to buy you a drink.” Having the right attitude will get her to accept your offer right away.
Posted on: Nov. 24, 2010