How To Teach Her To Give Fellatio

By: Slade K

Break Studios Contributing Writer

The topic of how to teach her to give fellatio is on many men's minds while in a relationship with someone who might be inexperienced or simply open for suggestions. Whether you opt to go the route of offering verbal suggestions as you see fit, or guide her along as the act is being performed, there are a variety of ways to make her feel comfortable while simultaneously ensuring you achieve the utmost pleasure as she is performing fellatio on you. This article outlines some of the best ways to go about teaching her to give fellatio.

  1. Voice your pleasure when she does something that feels good. When teaching her to give fellatio, one good route is to simply verbally express your pleasure as she is performing on you. By simply letting her know when something feels good, she will subconsciously take note of the fact that doing that specific thing brings you pleasure and approach it more often. This is a subtle, and effective way to teach her what feels good for you while weeding out what does not.
  2. Give her verbal feedback as you see fit. When the conversation arises as to whether or not oral sex felt good during a specific session, do not be afraid to answer honestly. One of the best things you can do in teaching her to give fellatio is to give her honest feedback and little tips to help hone her technique. Whether the topic comes up after the job is done, or before she begins; give her the information she needs to improve her skills.
  3. Guide her along as she is performing. In teaching her to give fellatio, one route to take is to physically guide her along as she is performing on you; this is particularly useful for women who simply do not have any experience. Guide her head with your hands in a gentle manner to help distinguish a good rhythm and give her an idea of what you prefer. When the both of your are comfortable enough, let her take over and give her the feedback she needs as she performs on you. While in fact this can be awkward initially, it will lead to countless good times in the future.
Posted on: Dec. 16, 2010