Communicating to your lady about sex is important in maintaining a healthy relationship and how to tell her what turns you on keeps things sizzling in the bedroom. You want to share your desires and wants with your lady so she has a better understanding of what to do when you two are alone.
- Share your fantasy. Talk about fantasies that you both will enjoy that turns you on; it can be sex in a park, kinky role-play with handcuffs and chains or a quickie on an elevator. The thought of these acts can be a turn on for her too, and she will want to experience it with you.
- Comment on her looks. Everybody has a certain glow that is irresistible and is a turn on. If you like the way your girl wears her hair or the certain color of clothing she wears, suggest that she wear it more often. If you imagine her in sexy lingerie, surprise your girl and pick up an enticing lingerie set at a store so she can model it for you.
- Talk about sex. Aside from having phone sex or saying nasty, flirty things in her ears that are turns on, keep the lines of communication open while in bed too. Tell her what makes you wild when she performs oral sex on you. Is it the way she moves her tongue? Or, the way she grabs your penis by her hand up and down? Whatever turns you on, tell her to keep doing it. In addition, is there is any favorite position you like and have not tried yet? Be open for different ways to keep the sparks happening so you are constantly turned on.