How To Tell If A Shy Girl Likes You

By: Greg Hawood

Break Studios Contributing Writer

How to tell if a shy girl likes you? It is a question that has stumped men since the earliest days of clubbing hot women and dragging them back to stone age caves. Shy women, by definition do not say a lot about what they are thinking so it is crucial that guys develop strategies to overcome the wall of silence. Men who find that shy girls like them, often enjoy a bonanza of love making because the shy girls have years of pent up sexual frustration to release. The following steps will tell you how to tell if a shy girl likes you.

  1. "Ask her friends." This is the easiest way to find out if a shy girl likes you. Shy girls often hang around in groups but they are much less shy when talking about their friends feelings than their own. Find the most vulnerable looking member of the shy girls gang and ask her to give you the scoop. Chances are that she will be too intimidated to say no and will let you know everything shy girl has ever said, thought or dreamed about.  
  2. "Ask her for a handwriting sample." This is a bit of an unorthodox approach but most libraries have books about graphology that help you to decipher the inner workings of peoples minds. Graphology help you determine if a shy girl likes you indirectly because the way she writes will let you know if she is a sociopath, psychopath, sadist and perhaps even a lesbian. If the shy girl refuses to give you a writing sample, assume she either loves you or is a psychopath wary of being discovered. 
  3. "Use a plant." If you really want to be able to tell if a shy girl likes you, the use of a plant should answer your question. Have a friend loudly plot to beat you up, rob from you or cause you harm when in close proximity to shy girl. A girl who does not care for you would probably realize it was fake and ignore the plot but a girl who is passionately in love would run to you and expose the villain.
  4. "Send an anonymous letter." Send the shy girl an anonymous love letter. Tell her you want to be with her and you know that she feels the same way. In the letter, tell her to meet you for lunch at a crowded restaurant. You will be able to tell if the shy girl likes you when she shows up to the restaurant. If she heads towards you, she is in love with you. If she walks over to another guy then it is time for you to move on with your life.
  5.  "Ask her." The simplest way to find out if a shy girl likes you is to ask her. Do not ask her in public in front of friends or co-workers but visit her house in the early evening when she is alone and she will be more inclined to talk. Tell her you like her and that you would like to get to know her better. If she slams the door shut and takes out a restraining order it means she does not like you.
Posted on: Nov. 07, 2010