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How To Tell If You Love Someone

By: Tanya Joel

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Learn how to tell if you love someone by looking for these key signs.  If you've never been in love before, you may be unsure whether the feelings you are having are real love or just an infatuation. It is easy to get these two feelings confused, especially if you do not have a lot of experience with relationships. Here you'll find a few easy signs which will help you know how to tell if you love someone.

How to tell if you love someone:

  1. You think of her all the time. When you are in love, you think about the girl you are attracted to all the time. You may see another girl wearing a dress, but instead of checking her out, you may think about how girl your girl would look in it. Or, you may be out having a good time with your friends, but all you can think of is how much more fun you would be having if she was here with you. When you can't get her off of your mind, it is a good way to tell if you love someone.
  2. You want to know 'who' she is. If you are merely infatuated with a girl, you probably aren't interested in her past or how she became the person she is now.  But, if you love someone, you want to know everything about her. What did she enjoy most about her childhood? Where did she get the scar on her wrist? How does she know so much about art? If you love her, you'll want to know everything about who she is and where she came from.
  3. You want to spend time with her outside the bedroom. One way you can tell if you love someone is if you want to spend time with her outside the bedroom.  If you're interested in what she has to say, not just what she can do for you when you are alone, this is an easy way to tell if you love someone. If you're only interested in having sex - you aren't in love; you're in lust.
Posted on: Nov. 22, 2010